The leader
Introducing Director of Development Sarah Brownlie, a driving force behind the work of the Trust and Project Manager at Wilder Carbon. Sarah is passionate about enabling everyone at Kent Wildlife Trust achieve their goals and encourages people not to seek perfection, but to embrace their strengths and learn from failures to become more resilient. She says:
“I've always been so intrigued by evidence[1] that showed a high percentage of men would apply for a job, even if they didn't meet all the requirements of the role, whereas women would likely only apply if they met all the criteria.
“I constantly see female colleagues strive for perfection and it was a standard I set myself early in my career. I very much assumed the position of needing to set out to prove myself by having all the answers and meeting all the requirements, in short - getting it right every time. This was exhausting, limiting and unnecessary. A standard that was impossible to achieve.
“I only really started to grow in my career when I started to 'fail' at being perfect, getting things 'wrong' or having to ask for help. It was a hard lesson, but as Jillian Michaels says, ‘A bad day for your ego is a great day for your soul.’
“What I perceived as failures were, of course, not the end of it and it was in those moments that I understood the power of perseverance and that by learning how to cope with adversity and bounce back from failure, I became more resilient overall.
"The poet and memoirist, Maya Angelou, sums this up beautifully when she writes “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”
"So, my advice to anyone reading this, male or female, who is contemplating taking the next step up the career ladder would be that it is better to get on and give it a go, even if you don't yet have all the answers. They should not be afraid to ask silly questions or for help and let's face it, more often than not, people are wondering the same thing!
"Don't set yourself up to fail by setting yourself unrealistic standards. Have courage in your vulnerability to authentically grow. Face your failures head-on and take responsibility for your actions. True leadership is showing how to handle the rough and the smooth.
And as an inspiring male leader I know always says: "Don't let perfect be the enemy of the good" an aphorism which means insistence on perfection often prevents the implementation of good improvements.
"And finally - allow yourself to be just good enough because you are!"
[1] Hewlett Packard internal report